Give It Up!

Pastor Jim Kilby • January 23, 2023

I meet many young people (and some older ones, too) who have not embraced Christ because of what they're afraid they'll have to give up. For some it's alcohol; for others cigarettes, drugs, sexual affairs, etc. No matter what or who it is, I always say the same thing. "Don't give up anything!" Yep, that's right... I don't ask them to give up a single thing. Instead, I ask them to add two things to their lives. First, I challenge them to read the Gospel of John. Second, I ask them to pray that God would reveal Himself to them. If they live close by, I'll also have them make a list of the things they don't understand from the Scriptures they read, and also to make a mental note of the ways God reveals Himself to them so we can discuss them. You see, people who are controlled by the flesh will never want to give up what the flesh desires. But, get them to embrace even a little Truth, and all those things will begin to fade away as the Spirit of God moves in. I know this from experience, my friends. I was caught in every one of those things myself not so many years ago! If only I had known a little earlier in life what God had planned for me!

 

"However, as it is written: 'No eye has seen, no ear has heard, no mind has conceived what God has prepared for those who love him.'" 1 Corinthians 2:9

 

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