Two Are Better Than One

Elizabeth Kilby • June 5, 2024

 

Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10)

 

Friends,


I have been doing quite a bit of googling lately about some health issues I have been experiencing. It’s rarely a good idea, but sometimes the right information will jump out and I’ll find something to help or an idea for moving forward. As I am dealing with all this, feeling somewhat stuck and rather frustrated, I started thinking about the people Harvest serves and how their situations must feel so similar.


I can google symptoms all day long and get a variety of opinions, but there are only so many realistic answers to “How am I going to feed my family this week?” or “What to do when you had a week off work because of illness and the bills were already overdue?” 


I also have the luxury of leaning on my husband, parents, friends, and doctors as I search for answers…but so many of the people I talk to feel so very alone. There is often no one, no support system, in place for the people who reach out to Harvest, and they feel alone, isolated, and like there is nowhere to turn.


The goal of Harvest Helps, Harvest House, even the Thrift Store is to meet practical needs in our community and share with those people the love of the Lord. You feel alone? We’re here with you. You don’t think anyone cares? You are a dearly loved child of God! You aren’t sure how to move forward? Let’s plan some steps.


There aren’t often quick fixes and rarely does a situation change completely overnight. There is beauty, though, in knowing there is a team cheering, praying, and hoping too that these obstacles would be overcome, and God would work in ways only possible through His power.   


Blessings,

Elizabeth Kilby




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