Memorial Day?
Pastor Jim Kilby • May 26, 2025
For many people, Memorial Day is a great day for backyard barbecues, friends and family. Many also mourn and remember loved ones who've passed. This Memorial Day I spent some time remembering a few close friends and some family members, and also one brother in Christ who passed away just this year. And since I was at it, I remembered someone else. I remembered myself! I reminded myself that every thing I say and everything I do will one day be my a memorial to my family, to the Church, and to my Lord. I even penned my name and my date of birth under "Deaths" in a family Bible. I left the date I will pass blank for now. Unless the Lord returns soon, my family can fill it in later and hopefully remember I was a faithful Christian--that I did not live for myself, but for them and for my Lord.
"And he died for all, that those who live should no longer live for themselves but for him who died for them and was raised again." 2 Corinthians 5:15
Pastor Jim Kilby
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A young woman I've spent a fairly considerable amount of time witnessing to gave her life to Christ. For quite a while I thought it might be a nearly hopeless case as she was heavily involved in Wicca and was quite given to casting spells, learning the doctrines, etc. As you can imagine, she and I didn't have a lot in common when she walked into one of our teen centers covered in black clothing, wearing black lipstick, hair dyed black, etc. But as I got to know her we had deep conversations in which I pulled out every imaginable piece of truth I thought she could stomach. I worked hard at beating her religion to death, all quite gently on the surface of course, but praying to myself and smiling lovingly as I tossed logic-grenades into her lap. Some people take the approach that such a ministry is ridiculous, since if God wants this young person to be saved, He will call her. My take is that God IS calling her! And, He's expecting me to be the servant I've been called to be while He uses me to bring the gospel home to her! I don't believe in passive Christianity, and I don't believe anyone who's truly been saved from an eternity separated from God would think any differently. "Since, then we know what it is to fear the Lord, we try to persuade men." 2 Corinthians 5:11 Pastor Jim Kilby Your donation spreads good news! www.harvestyouth.org/donate
I was held hostage today! Not by a gunman or anything that dramatic, but by a silly gas pump! Even though it's so cold outside you could probably freeze in ten minutes, the gas station I chose to pull into thought it would be appropriate to let me "chill" while I answered a few questions. "Do you want a car wash?" I wanted to answer "No, because it's CLOSED and I couldn't get one if I wanted without turning my car into a block of ice!" "What type of gas do you like?" "Do you want a receipt"... Well, you get the picture. Earlier today I was held hostage by a salesperson that desperately needed to sell me something, and then by a credit card company that soooo had something I would want! I guess along the way we've became so desperate that we've begun to think that extortion and kidnapping are perfectly normal ways to sell things. And maybe that's true, some people will buy things just so you'll leave them alone. But did they really want anything? Will they really appreciate it? Unfortunately, this same type of thought process has also worked it's way into the hands of well-meaning Christians. They believe that if trapping someone and force-feeding them a good dose of "Jesus" might save their souls then it's worth it! But did they really want anything? Will they really appreciate it? Did they just pray with you to get you off their back? While I cannot disagree with the Jesus saving them if they would only listen, it's the hostage taking and force feeding I'm sure will never work. I cannot find one reference in the Scriptures where Jesus forced Himself on anyone. Instead, He gently asked people to leave everything, follow Him, and sin no more. "Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience." Colossians 3:12 Pastor Jim Kilby Your donation spreads good news! www.harvestyouth.org/donate
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