Peace?
I heard a sermon many years ago that's stuck with me in an uncanny way. The general idea was that Christians can get a good idea of how well they are walking with the Lord based on the number of broken relationships in their lives. For example, if you're a person who just can't get along with anyone, then you become the single common denominator in all of your relationships--by simple mathematics, YOU are the problem. That being accurate, your walk with the Lord must need some work! I have long thought this to be true, and it certainly is true if you continuously have broken relationships within the Church, meaning other believers. However, as I've been reading through the Old Testament again, I've become convinced of a new understanding on this issue. Let's face it, there were many Old Testament prophets and other figures who were simply hated by everyone (or nearly everyone) around them (Jesus included!) They were hated because they were holy, they spoke the truth, and their actions were righteous. That doesn't mean today's Christians should become "self-righteous" and break relationships with others without a great amount of effort, humility and grace, but it is always going to be a problem for some that you are doing your best to walk with Jesus. Let's face it, some broken relationships are inevitable. I believe we should continue to pray about the situation, and for the other person(s), but that doesn't mean we're required to be best friends with those who hate the Lord.
"Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: 'It is mine to avenge; I will repay,' says the Lord." Romans 12:19
Pastor Jim Kilby
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