Cymbals?
Pastor Jim Kilby • May 14, 2026
My oldest son ran one of our ministry's teen centers. One of his staff members came up with a great idea for stopping teenagers from breaking rules. Whenever someone starts acting crazy, one of the leaders starts banging on this huge cymbal with a drum stick and then pointing at the offending teen with the same stick. It's all done in fun of course, but with a serious attempt at keeping things in line. What's cool about the cymbal is that it's really irritating to everyone's ears, and it simply cannot be ignored. Whenever someone starts banging on it, everyone turns to look and see who's "acting the fool!" No doubt there's much lauging and pointing and other teenage fun, but everyone wants the banging to stop! As I was reading through this Scripture about love today, I was reminded that those who claim to do great things for God, but have no love for others are described similarly. These "cymbals" are "symbols" of all that is wrong with the church today. They are impossible to ignore, really irritating and everyone is forced to turn and look who's "acting the fool." What's unfortunate in this scenario is that nothing is done for "fun" or for keeping teenagers in line. It's all about the cymbal (read, fake follower of God) getting attention for his or herself. I'm once again reminded that anything done without love is worthless.
"If I [can] speak in the tongues [ Or languages] of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal." 1 Corinthians 13:1
Pastor Jim Kilby
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