Big Boy!

Pastor Jim Kilby • October 28, 2024

Imagine for a moment that you're the biggest and strongest kid on the block. You're a peace loving person, but for some reason (maybe because you are strong) there are a few other kids who just don't like you. One day you walk outside to see your dog has been mistreated by some of the youth who've mocked you occasionally. You're angry, but you figure there's not much you can do. Revenge is not your job. Later that day, you see the same kids beating up your little brother. Peace loving or not, you know you've got to do something. As you run toward your brother, you know that unless you help he may not live. They've already beaten him badly and they've been known for doing even worse to others... What do you do? 

 

 In recent days I've heard religious leaders, protestors, and even peace loving Christian brothers and sisters make some silly statements. What's more, I believe they are unbiblical statements. Their belief is that since another nation has done nothing to us, we have no business doing anything to stop them from hurting someone else.  "War is never an option!" they claim. Really...  What would God have the biggest kid on the block do if his brother's life was being threatened. I assure you that "nothing" is not the Biblical answer. Jesus mocked religious leaders for the same type of "look the other way" ignorance. Moments later He praised the Samaritan who went out of his way to help a stranger.

 

 "Your wives, your children and your livestock may stay in the land that Moses gave you east of the Jordan, but all your fighting men, fully armed, must cross over ahead of your brothers. You are to help your brothers" Joshua 1:14



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